Cooper turned 19 months old today. His most favorite thing to do is play outside. I think he'd stay outside all day if we let him. He begs to go outside, and verbalizes that word very well.

He is in the throes of separation anxiety, normal for toddlers to go through, but still not easy on any of us. He screams and cries for me at night if anyone but me puts him to bed. Leaving for work in the morning is getting harder and harder on both of us. Thank goodness the light is at the end of that tunnel...6 more months or so.

Cooper loves our dog, Brody, and has finally learned how to pet nicely without giving Brody an anxiety attack. Brody is learning that Cooper can now give affection, not just toddler abuse.

The other night I was putting Cooper to bed, and two things happened that were significant to me, so I'd like to get them written down. First, we were having his bedtime prayers, and he started repeating the last word of every phrase. If we tell him it's time for a prayer, he will fold his arms for about 20 seconds. He hasn't yet mastered closing eyes AND folding arms. It's one or the other with him. :o)
The other significant thing that happened was that I felt like I had my first real conversation with him where he brought up a subject, and we discussed it in a back and forth dialogue. We were sitting in the rocking chair, looking out the window at dusk. He was calm and quiet, when suddenly he worriedly shouted, ".... (elipses being severl words I couldn't decipher)...bee!" "Mommy! Bee!" "Mommy, bee sting!" Knowing that earlier that day there had been a bee in the house, and his cousin, Ellie, had been very worried about it, I understood that he had picked up on her concern, which she shared with me as "something very important to tell you" when I got home from work that day.
Understanding where this was coming from, I validated his fear, "Cooper, I know there was a bee in the house today. Were you worried it was going to sting you?"
"Bee sting!"
"Yes, sometimes bees get mad and sting. But not usually. They just buzz around looking for food to take home. All the bees have gone night-night now at their beehive house. There are no more bees to worry about today."
He gave me a look of relief. "Bees all gone?"
"Yes, Cooper, bees all gone."
"Oh. Bees all gone."
That was the end of our first little conversation, after which he fell asleep a few minutes later.